There are nice and not so nice people. Some are genuinely helpful and friendly, others use, abuse, gossip for their own gain. Maybe they have lost their love for adventure, are unhappy with their lives, or enjoy making others miserable. There is not a particular solution. Doesn’t matter what we do, we cannot please everyone. But we could be selfish once in a while and think only of ourselves. Life is short, we should enjoy everything out of it. Why waste time with people who is not worth the trouble? It is better to have one real friend that millions of fake ones. While many spend their time trying to please or pretending to be, it is easier to just be and attract people who enrich our lives. Don’t you think? We cannot mix oil and water, they always repel each other.