From being someone’s daughter, wife, or mother… time passes… we mature…changing our lives and expectations … realizing our individuality…in search of self…a need to feel loved, to be explored, caressed, admired, and desired…when those needs are not fully fulfilled…we search, we dream we discover..

Our 30s bring a need for self-discovery… priorities evolve and change…it can even be called our midlife crisis because we want more…self-respect becomes important…A realization that others can survive without us…we want new careers, new friends, and even new bodies…

In our 40s… our inhibitions are gone (OK, some of us has no inhibitions at all…just imagine what will happen as we mature…) we know what we want and need and go for it. We love ourselves, become aware of our health, and accept our bodies (OK, there is plastic surgery, breast implants, and liposuction to reach that acceptance). Sex becomes fun, not a duty, or a manipulation tool…(OK, sex is a power weapon…but now we really know how to used) we expect orgasms, no more pretending for fragile egos. No more waiting for others to be happy.

With maturity and experience…friends become less in numbers …increasing in quality….they become essential to express who we are, to be needed, and be loved unconditionally… there to laugh and cry with us in time of need and time of plenty…