Life is wonderful and full of adventure. Have you ever wonder …if we confuse kindness with love? I wonder because one of the most common answers when asked why you married is “because he or she was nice to me”. It doesn’t make sense to confuse one with the other…but if we think about it…in a weird way it does make sense after all we do not want to marry someone who treats us as shit…OK, some people do. Personally, I have no patience with that…no one have the right to humiliate or mistreat others….our human nature makes us levitate towards people who are either similar to us, not physically, but spiritually…mostly, we prefer to be around people who make us feel welcome and love, don’t you think? But then…if we marry someone just because that person is nice to us…do we fall in love with that person? Or do we fall in love with the idea if being in love? Or do we pretend to be in love? But then… who can really say what loves is, after all love is subjective even when at the end is the same deep feeling for every one…what do you think?